“Good Enough”

Nothing ever makes you feel this way besides validation and reassurance. Maybe that is just me personally but I feel like being good enough or being somewhat worthy is always about others who are around you and how you feel you need to be or what expectations you need to reach.

If you don’t ever reach a certain limit you feel like you are less or more because of what you are achieving or not achieving. This is all based on the concept of reaching for something of being better than someone else. It is like being in a race or competition with everything and everyone. You have to be first, not second or third because that’s not good enough.

You constantly look at yourself and wish your waist was a little thinner and your hair was longer and you was shorter.

You are never content with yourself. Nobody is because enough isn’t enough. When we achieve or get more WE WANT MORE. That is what being good enough is, it is hurting yourself mentally by lying to yourself that you are not enough. You feel the need to consistently feed yourself the lies because you can do better or that your neighbour or babysitter is earning more or is doing more.

You compare yourself like you are a piece of bread or wood but little do you know that you are more than enough. There is no reason to compare like bread and wood. There is all the reason in the world to love and adore yourself and nor hate or be bitter towards yourself.

You want to “Be Enough” for others but not yourself. Everything you choose to do is for others and not for yourself. You are not true to yourself. You do not put yourself first so how do you expect someone else to?

Please stop trying to “Be Enough” be more FOR YOU. Not for those who choose to forget or leave you when you need them the most. Learn that you need yourself before being enough. Loving yourself will show you that you already are enough. Fall in love with you before you want to love elsewhere.

You are better, you are more. You are worth everything and more.

LOVE YOURSELF, BETTER YOURSELF, BUILD YOURSELF.