Attachment

Being attached to others is completely normal till you itch and bitch about what they do with others.

Attachment isn’t about continuously wanting to be with them, it’s overthinking if they are safe and secure in their environment in that moment.

It’s trying to make them happy without them realising how much you do, they think it’s you being friendly. But the truth is, you want and need them.

If it’s not them it’s nothing. You rely on them because the make you feel safe and secure and protected. The bond and connections you both have is beautiful, it makes you more than happy.

The protection and the security is all an individual wants to feel in a friendship/relationship. It’s essential, it’s needed, it’s wanted.

It’s what we all require but in this generation these basics aren’t given. So when we receive the basics we love it and we appreciate it to the point where the individual who is providing you the basics stops because they think it’s enough.

In this day and age, this is what happens.

When you hit the happy moment or the slight positivity you expect it to be everlasting and that is our fault.

It’s all our fault for allowing so little mean so much but i guess that’s just the few of us who look for the genuine side to reality. Not the materialistic money or 5 bedroom house or a car or a wallet that is full to the point it’ll rip.

We require the realistic and genuine side of love and bonds.

We want what will remain and stay forever and not just for now.